Top Ten Reasons Why Living With A Pisces Is Hard

Feb 16, 2018 by apost team

You’ll find that a Pisces has many layers to their personality. When you try to peel back these layers to examine the person under it, it can be very difficult. Pisces can be misunderstood and dynamic for a very good reason! Sometimes you can love us one day and absolutely hate us the next. For ten reasons why it is tough being with a Pisces, keep reading!
 

While we will be very honest about it, we can be quite manipulative when we want something. We are always able to make a sound argument as to why we should have our way. Sometimes, the end game is much more important to us than how we should get there. This can cause us to be insensitive to others at times.

While being manipulative may work well in the investigative line of work, it doesn’t work as well for relationships!

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A Pisces is a born leader. We want to be in control and our attitude is a “get it done” one. We want others to follow along with this and enjoy controlling the situation when we can. Since we don’t like authority figures, this can lead to issues at work and at home, if we feel like we are being bossed around. We respect them; we just need to be in control of the situation! If not, we get stressed out.

While being in control can be great, it can also be a weakness for us.

We love to have sex-lots and lots of it! It isn’t boring at all and we experiment freely. Unfortunately, if we feel bored with our partner sexually, this could lead to problems in other areas of the relationship. We never want our sex to become too predictable.

You will never be bored dating a Pisces. We like to keep secrets and we usually only reveal half of an answer- after all, we love to keep you guessing! However, many partners find this side of us extremely frustrating at times. They feel like they will never know all the sides of us and that we are hiding things.

We will chase what we want until we get it. We will also fight over something we want until we can’t fight anymore! However, this often leads to hasty actions that aren’t always the best idea. We get in over our heads easily with our impulsiveness. One good side is that our bravery allows us to be successful in both relationships and work issues. That’s a good sign!

When we do fall in love with someone, we remain 100% loyal and committed to them at all times. We support them in whatever they are doing and want to protect them from any harm. We hate to see our loved ones hurting!

It doesn’t take us long at all to realize whether we like someone or not. This often leads to us being thought of as judgmental but we prefer the term observational! We may be guarded at first until we get to know and trust someone. When we do trust someone and they let us down, we tend to get a bit crazy about it!

We can easily hold a grudge for a long time when we feel it is necessary. Since we are loyal, we want and expect it from others. When we don’t get it, we don’t forget OR forgive. We will make sure you don’t forget what you did, either. 

We love to laugh! However, we don’t like juvenile jokes. We want to be with someone who enjoys witty and insightful jokes and conversation instead. Some people don’t like to be with us because we can be quite blunt at times. Some even find us offensive. If you enjoy stupid, slapstick jokes, we may not be the easiest person to get along with. 

We will always stand up for someone when we love and care for them. Since we know exactly what we are looking for in life, we give our best and expect it in return. But this can lead us to intimidate people because they think we can be too critical of them or situations. We are just critical of ourselves and try to push our limits! But having high standards often leads to self-destructive ways, which can scare people off.

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