Sometimes, Love Can Turn Even Good People Toxic

Sep 04, 2018 by apost team

Sometimes what seems like the perfect relationship can leave you unsatisfied and bitter. Find out how to see the warning signs and what to do when it happens to you.

Falling madly in love with someone doesn't always mean that it's meant to be. You can feel like you're on top the world, but in reality, you're filling yourself with a poisonous attitude. You might become something you never thought was possible. You might end up as a bitter and toxic person. A strong romance can separate you from real life.

You may find yourself being isolated from friends and family. If you spend every waking minute with your partner, then you might be losing sight of what's important. Your partner might even be manipulating you. There's nothing wrong with being 100 Percent involved with your Love interest, so don't get the wrong idea.

Just make sure you understand that sometimes it can be the result of a toxic person trying to control you.

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You should keep in mind that your perspective and point of view can be wrong. Experiencing these situations in a relationship doesn't prove that your partner is toxic. These problems could prove you to be the toxic one. At least you have the power to change yourself.

Extreme jealousy can be a good indicator of a bad relationship. If it's provoked legitimately, then try to work things out. If it's out of nowhere, then you might have a serious issue. People with very low self-esteem tend to thrive on jealousy. They can't control their emotions. Jealousy isn't the root of the situation.

The real culprit is low self-esteem.

Uncontrollable rage in your partner is another major sign. If heated fights continually break out, then it can make your whole life become seemingly meaningless. Regardless of who causes it both of you need to deal with each other like adults.

Get over the anger and fussing. If you are driving your partner crazy, then they need to deal with it. If being with them is like walking on eggshells, then you need to address it.

Not doing anything about these dramatic reactions will only lead to the destruction of what little love you end up with. You both may feel like everyone is against you, but don't be against each other. Toxic people aren't born bitter.

They are created.

Being under the influence of a manipulative person can transfer to your personality. You may find yourself sneaking around on your partner's texts and social media. Arguments may escalate into physical harm. Throwing plates and furniture might become commonplace in your daily interactions.

Don't let a sweet thing turn sour. Know when to walk away and cool off. Do some research on stopping an argument from escalating. If you really love your partner, then make an effort to be the best you can be for them.

Have you ever dated a toxic person? Or have you become toxic in a relationship? See if your friends can relate to these experiences and ask them how they dealt with it.