Parents Raising Their Kids as 'Gender Neutral' Are Sick Of Dealing with Critical Comments and Judgmental Looks From Strangers

Feb 09, 2020 by apost team

Christina Hise-Johnson and her husband Josh from Indiana are doing something different: gender-neutral parenting. They think it's okay when a boy might want to wear sparkly shoes or play with dolls.

Therefore they are raising their three children, now aged 19, 14 and five without any of these stereotypes binding them. The reaction from the general public, however, is often not very accepting. 

They also think it's okay when girls don't want to do activities that are more "girly." They're raising their three children to explore the activities that they want to do and wear the clothes that they want, whether or not it’s traditionally “for boys” or “for girls” as reported on further here by The Daily Mail. 

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For example, their oldest daughter Ashley is into wearing more masculine clothes right now. Their son Jacob used to wear long hair and do "girly" activities, even though he might be doing more typical "boy" stuff right now.

And then there's their youngest son, Chandler, who is five. Chandler is free to enjoy what he wants to because of his mom and dad's gender neutral parenting. For example, he really wanted pink shoes when he was a baby.

Chandler's parents have gotten a lot of critical looks and comments when they're out in public for the way Chandler dresses and the toys he likes. 

"I have had people tell me how beautiful our little girl is and when they find out he’s a boy they shake their heads and walk away," 

Christina says. Some people will even ask Christina if she is worried her son might grow up to be gay. This is bewildering to her, especially since Chandler is only five. Christina explains that the way they try to parent is to not limit their child's interests by what the media says about "girl" activities and "boy" activities.

What do you think about this parenting style? What do you think about girls that might want to wear tomboy clothes or boys that want to play with dolls? Let us know in the comments and pass this along to your friends and family to see what they think!