Nothing Can Make Me Lose Interest Faster Than Someone Lying To Me

Sep 26, 2018 by apost team

I could not believe what you were saying to me. I couldn't trust whatever you might say in the future. I just couldn't trust you generally, as a person. You lied to me all the time about everything. This was not something you did occasionally. You didn't do this out of the blue. You didn't do it when things were dire. You did this all the time. You lied to me, even about the simplest of things. You may have thought you were protecting yourself, saving your self a seat in this relationship, but what you didn't get was that you were pushing me away even more. I was losing interest because of what you were lying about, and this is what came crashing down on us.

I get self preservation. I've had to lie just to save my butt so I get it. But you should ask yourself why you would lie to your romantic partner. You told lies to protect yourself from me like I would hurt you. Your lies kept the distance between the two of us, like we'd ever get it all to work if we never did try to get closer to each other. You wanted to make sure I never got to know the real you, who was hidden from the public. You didn't understand that this was pushing me away.

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I was losing interest as you were lying to me. You tried to make it seem like a defense, like you were better and stronger than you were. Here's what you need to know: I would have loved getting to know all of your weaknesses, to see the realness in you, the deep vulnerabilities and insecurities. You didn't let that happen though. You made sure. You kept the aspects of your personality that you tucked for no one to see. You didn't expose this to me because you didn't want me to use this against you.

You thought I would expose these weaknesses and hurt you. That's far from the truth though because I only wanted to love all the parts of you. You kept these things about yourself in the dark, and I loved a false ideal of you. You didn't give to this relationship because you were lying.

And there was another type of lie, not done because of self-preservation. You told me lies time and time again to prop yourself up. This is because you wanted to sell yourself so that you could make me like you. You thought I'd be impressed and more interested. You wanted to use your mystique and your aura. You were making me feel the opposite though. You trying so hard only made me realize the fakeness.

The lies made me understand you weren't worth me trying to get to know you. Your trying to impress me caused me to become unimpressed I became because then I was able to see how fake it was. You thought you were doing the right thing but you were losing me by that point already.

Your lies made you impossible for me to trust, and that was your biggest mistake. Why didn't you try and earn my trust correctly? You never tried to building the semblance of trust we did have. You were always lying. You killed this relationship before it got started. You drove me away without letting me try and get closer to you. That is what is most frustrating. You didn't let this relationship have life.

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