Mom Of Four Who Is Shamed For Loving Bikinis And Crop Tops Says, “You Should Dress The Way You Feel Like Dressing”

Aug 14, 2023 by apost team

Rose Cordeiro, 48, loves to challenge dressing stereotypes. The mom of four is popular for her sculpted physique and love for thong bikinis, crop tops, and thigh-high dresses, and she says aging has made her more confident. Cordeiro believes that age is merely a number and lives by this rule. Meanwhile, her body allows her to keep up with her view. 

“When my 25-year-old daughter and I go out, she’s used to people either thinking we’re friends or sisters,” the TikToker told The Sun. 

Cordeiro regularly posts dance routines on her TikTok page, which has over 43k followers. The influencer said she opened it out of boredom during the pandemic and upon her 16-year-old daughter’s insistence. She also posts some of her dance moves on Instagram, where she has over 18k followers. Another of Cordeiro’s posts on Instagram also showed her stepping out in a brown crop-top dress with a thigh-high slit.

Cordeiro revealed that she has a lot of fans who admire her lifestyle and youthful looks. She disclosed that she exercises regularly and remains positive always. 

“I do intermittent fasting, I lift weights, I love to dance everyday,” she told Daily Star. “I live a fairly active life and I religiously take care of my skin. I have a daily skin care routine, and I never go to sleep with any make-up on.”

The TikToker further disclosed that she only stopped neglecting herself after giving birth to her fourth child and then started investing in herself. 

Although the fitness enthusiast has many fans, she gets criticized too. She told The Sun in an article published on Oct. 7, 2022, that naysayers troll her for not dressing her age. Continue reading to know her response. 

Cordeiro’s bold outfits have opened her up to criticism online as she has been called “grandma” and “attention seeker.” Many naysayers also said she ought to dress her age.

“I get those comments from ‘Karens,’” she told The Sun in an article published on Oct. 7, 2022. “But I think you should dress the way you feel like dressing. I feel good in the clothes I wear.”

“It wouldn’t be me to dress the way society thinks a 48-year-old woman should dress,” the mom of four added. “That wouldn’t be me and I wouldn’t be comfortable in it. Dressing the way you want shouldn’t be determined by your age.”

Cordeiro said her response to her critics is, “What is a 48-year-old woman supposed to dress like?” She added, “48 is not the same as our parents’ generation. We’re in 2022. We can do whatever we want as long as we’re not hurting anyone. Do what makes you happy.”

The certified flight attendant further asserted that she would not let society define what a 48-year-old woman ought to or not to do for her. She would only do the things that make her happy. Cordeiro opined that society often pressured women even in unnecessary things, so she wanted to make a stand for women. 

“I do this on my social media platforms because I want to show other women that it’s ok to embrace your body at any age. My views on what women should wear over 40 is anything their heart desires,” she told the outlet. 

She backed it up with a quote she always shared with her children and said: “You should always aspire to inspire other people.”

For those who needed confidence, Cordeiro asked them to love themselves and know that everyone won’t like them.

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Contrary to what many naysayers may think of the mom of four, she is a goal-getter who is determined not to let her age stop her from achieving her goals, be it dancing, dressing, or learning a new skill. 

She opened up about dancing on TikTok ad revealed that she found the art quite difficult when she first started. 

“It's actually hard to learn dances – I'm not a dancer, my body's never done those things,” she disclosed. “So, for me, it would take a lot of tries. When you're older you can't remember choreography or steps.”

Cordeiro added, “It was really hard at first. “But as time went on it got easier and it just kind of blew up (on TikTok).”

Besides learning to dance, Cordeiro also took time to equip herself with a new skill. She loves to travel by air and is a certified flight attendant. 

“I got certified to become a flight attendant,” she said. “I'm either going to pursue it in the private jet industry or commercial. I'm not sure yet, but I'm leaning more toward the private jet industry.”

The TikToker further disclosed that she only stopped neglecting herself after giving birth to her fourth child. 

“I became a mum at a fairly young age of 23, and had four children between that age and 38,” she shared. “During that time I didn’t really take care of myself, and felt unhealthy, because I was dedicating all my time for my family.”

She added, “After my fourth child I realised I needed to start investing in myself, and change my unhealthy lifestyle to a healthy and fit one, so I could feel better about myself - not only physically but emotionally and mentally as well.”

What do you think of this mom’s confidence? Do you think her wears are age-appropriate? Let us know, and be sure to pass this on to friends and family.