Love Someone Who Is Healing

Oct 26, 2018 by apost team

If you're desperate to learn what unconditional and true love is like, the best thing you can do is take a little risk. Love a healing person.

A person who is healing knows loss, doubt, insecurity, and pain. They'll constantly be seeking acceptance and reassurance from you. She might have a lot of open and sensitive emotions. Some days, you'll know every thought that goes through her head. Other days, she'll be impossible to read.

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She's craving true love alone. Even if she has it, she needs to be reminded that it's there. She needs you to help pick her up after her fall. She might have been hurt before she ever fell in love with you.

Because she's still undergoing the healing process, all that pain has come with her into the relationship.

So she's needier than most people. She asks for reassurance that you're in love with her. She asks about whether you think about other women, and if these women arouse you. She might even accuse you of things you haven't actually done. But she does this because she's scared to lose you.

She always seems to be on guard, even though she knows in her heart that you love her truly and authentically. Inside her is a wounded woman who desperately needs you to stitch her wounds and bandage her up so that she never gets hurt again. But since you can't see the wounds, you may accidentally scrape them and make them bleed all over again.

Even though she's suffering, even though it's hard, love her because you'll learn what it truly means to love someone no matter what. You'll come to realize that while she doesn't love perfectly, she does give a patient and kind sort of love.

True love doesn't stop at just romance and butterflies. Sometimes true love is long talks about insecurities and pain. Sometimes true love is understanding when she's feeling insecure so you can make her see how loved she truly is.

Throughout the experience, loving her shows you how you can know someone's soul. Maybe you'll learn something from her pain. You'll finally see what it's like to be completely human while in love.

You might have an easier time loving a person who's polished and put together, to love someone who isn't dealing with so much. But these people only look good on the surface. Just because it's easier doesn't make it realistic or ideal.

A healing soul is the most realistic out there. She has become the personification of pain, but she's still willing to love. So accept that love and give it back to her. Make sure that she's cherished because she's a glorious one of a kind angel.

You should take a deep breath and dive into the deep end. Take the risk and have an experience you won't ever regret. Open yourself up to pain and brokenness.

Have you ever loved or been loved by a healing person? Let us know your story.