Just Because She Is In Love With You Doesn’t Mean She Won’t Leave You

Aug 28, 2018 by apost team

You may not think that it will happen to you, but it is very possible for her to get up and leave even if she is in love with you. You should never become complacent because women can and do leave the men that they love. It may be one of the hardest things she will ever have to do. But that does not mean that it won’t happen. It will take strength and courage for her to walk away, but she will not let that fear stop her from doing what needs to be done.

She knows staying with you isn’t the right thing to do, and she is not going to let fear stand in the way of what she has to do for herself. 

Women leave men all of the time for heinous acts, such as cheating and abuse. You may think you are safe because you do neither of these things.

But you may be wrong.

She may leave you because you have been taking her for granted. You aren’t really there in the relationship. You don’t like doing things with her anymore. You treat her more like an accessory than like a real human. These are the reasons she will leave.

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This doesn’t mean that you are a bad guy. You may be a stand-up kind of guy who makes the right choices and is nice to friends and family. You could be a good dad to your children. You may be going through the motions, believing that you are doing everything right for your girlfriend or wife. But you may also be taking your relationship for granted. She may leave if you let too many distractions take over. You have to be actively invested in your relationship to make it work. Pay attention to detail so she doesn’t start looking for it somewhere else.

You’re probably mad that being a nice guy isn’t enough for a relationship. You believe that she is being unreasonable with her wants and needs. After all, everyone thinks you are a nice guy. But in reality, that doesn’t mean you are fulfilling your end of the relationship.

You have to be her best friend, her partner, her lover, her all. She needs to see you are making an effort. She wants to feel as if she is the center of your universe. You need to make her a priority and ensure that she is having her expectations met.

She needs to feel as if she can come to you with all of her fears and insecurities without you laughing them off. She wants to feel safe when she is with you. She is a woman who has expectations and needs, just like everyone else. She isn’t just a prize or an afterthought. She can make her own decisions and choices and she wants you to be fully involved in them. If she starts to feel that she isn’t getting what she needs from you, she will walk away. You don’t want to be so naïve as to think that she will stay with you just because she is here now. 

You don’t just earn love and stop fighting for it. Love is a feeling that should be worked for every single day. It’s worth the fight. She is worth the fight and time, so please don’t ever stop fighting for her love and affection. 

Do you feel the same way about love? Let us know below in the comments! Be sure to pass this along to friends and family when you are done.