If A Man Doesn't Want To Be With You, Don't Try To Force Him To Stay

Aug 09, 2018 by apost team

Everybody wants to be in a happy, stable relationship. Sometimes, though, luck simply isn’t on our side. We don’t get to be with the perfect guy. That is because there is no such thing as perfect. While we may think our significant other is perfect in the very beginning, we are in for a disappointment when we realize that they are not.

Men are just very different when compared to women and have different needs. Sometimes this is confusing to the women who love them. Men often need a break from the noise they feel is surrounding them all of the time. Some want to leave, either temporarily or permanently. It sounds crazy, but we don’t always know the reasons why.

Some women are more emotional than men. They think that when a man wants a break, that means he is just sick and tired of her. This isn’t always the case. Sometimes, men simply need a little time away for themselves. But you should never actually force your man to stay if he doesn’t want to.

If he wants to go, let him.

You may have thought that you were perfectly compatible in the very beginning. But soon that compatibility was gone. One or both of you became unhappy in the relationship. Your man has decided he wants to escape for a while. He simply needs the space.

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You need to be stable; physically, socially, and emotionally. Many women want to stay inside of their rooms all day, wondering where they went wrong. Many get depressed and others feel as though their life isn’t worth living anymore. This is so far from the truth, though. You have to stand tall and face your new reality. Sure, this was a very traumatic experience but you can survive.

You have to take care of yourself and live your life.  

Everyone knows that things happen that are out of our control. This is one of them. But it probably happened because there is something much better on the horizon for you. Stay strong and keep your hopes up-something amazing is about to happen.

You can’t escape the sadness surrounding you, but there are ways to deal with it that involve meditation. Meditation will help you realize that you are better off on your own for now. It will help you stay connected to your soul.

You may have set aside the things that you liked to do while you were in a relationship. Now is the time to pick back up where you left off. Read, shop, paint, eat, and volunteer-whatever you like to do, do it.

Laughter really is the best medicine of all. Go out with friends who will make sure you have a great time. Don’t sit at home and cry forever. Your loved ones will be happy to help cheer you up in your time of need.

Do you have any helpful hints to add? Let us know how you got over a very emotional break-up in the comments. Then pass this on to help others in the same situation!