Here Is How You Can Differentiate Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship

Sep 25, 2018 by apost team

Couples who are mature are very different from couples who are immature. Instead of falling in love, mature couples are responsible for rising to the call of love. Mature couples do not believe in falling in love. They prefer to step into love.

Falling requires that you go to a lower state of being than you initially were. As a result of this, you must take action to get back up. Falling also suggests that you are low to a point of being stuck.

This isn’t what love is about. Unfortunately, for those who are doing it wrong, this is all too familiar. Those who fall are presumed to be immature. Mature couples choose to coast into love instead. Love will either last forever or will come and go. It can be seen as wrong and it can be viewed as right. To put it simply, you have mature couples and then you have immature couples.

What things about your relationship inform you of the level of its maturity? What information can you gather that will let you know if your relationship is about to come to a halt or if it’s going to last forever? How can you truly know?

Here is what you should know. It should not be hard. Instead, it should come with ease and remain that way throughout. Fights of passion followed by make-up sex driven by passion are nonexistent. Over worrying, constant calling and texting will never be an issue to arise.

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Any drama is limited. Drama is left for the immature to play with.

Individuals who are not capable of having a healthy relationship deal with drama. Their knowledge of love and relationships is centered around ill-teachings that show true love as being obsessive and wild. These notions are not realistic.

Love isn’t hard. It is simple and easy. In fact, it may be the easiest thing you will ever do. Its place in your life in balanced, calm and safe. It is a natural occurrence that doesn’t need anyone to fight for it each day.

Peace of mind comes when you find clarity in your love for one another. When you both are sure of your love for one another, anything that could potentially destroy your relationship loses importance. This level of peace of mind reveals itself to you as something you have never before experienced. It will humble you and bring you back to life at the same time. Peace of mind stands at the center of a mature relationship. Those who are immature drown in the chaos.

Relationships that are immature are driven by a lot of questions. On the contrary, mature relationships answer the questions themselves.

Doubts are in continual growth as immature relationships continue to suffer. Does she really love me? How do I know he isn’t cheating on me? Will this relationship last longer than my last? Couples who are mature don’t feel the need to ask these questions. Instead, they are already certain of the answer. Having reassurance given by their significant other isn’t necessary.

Love that thrives in maturity doesn’t waste time on these small questions. Couples find comfort in knowing that the bigger question has already been answered. Mature couples are secure and free in their relationship.

If you are in an immature relationship, you will be left wanting. When in a mature relationship, you will always gain what you need.

Voids are always present in immature relationships. Those involved are always seeking what is missing. Voids are not present in relationships that are mature. Empty spaces and open cracks are nonexistent. When in a mature relationship, each individual is complete and never feels like something has been taken from them if the other person leaves.

Immature relationships seek to complete each other to make one whole person, instead of accepting that they are in fact, two complete individuals.

Immature relationships are made of individuals seeking something that cannot be found in the other. Together they are a complete mess. Mature couples seek to drive one another to be a better version of themselves.

They understand that their love doesn’t make each other whole. Instead, it pushes each other to become better individually. How would you describe your past or current relationships? How will you view your future relationships?