Couple That Started Out Casually Tend To Be The Happiest
Sep 27, 2018 by apost team
Many of the happiest couples started out just casually. They thought they were just friends who liked to hang out. Before long, those random nights of drinking and enjoying time together turned into snuggling in the morning.
They were friends or friends with benefits, but they never thought that their relationship could become serious.
Before long, that casual couple turned into a serious relationship. Both partners were surprised by the depths of their feelings and their sudden love for one another. They knew that these feelings were real because they never planned on having them.
A typical couple can trick their mind into feeling love when they start out a relationship. Since this casual couple never planned on finding love, they know that this relationship is real and true.
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They started out happy and living life on their own. They did not want to be attached to someone because they had plans for their lives. Before long, all of these plans were tossed out the window as their relationship became serious.
istockphotos.com/RoosterHDMany of the happiest couples started out in a casual relationship. They were amazing friends who one day decided to try hooking up. Since they had fun as friends, they thought that a casual relationship would be a great step.
They already felt comfortable around each other, so there was no awkwardness or anxiety. Suddenly, their shared laughs, chemistry, and mutual attraction turned into something more.
They never expected their temporary relationship to fill their lives with so much love.
Couples start out in many different ways. With each text and every kiss, they develop a deeper and deeper commitment to each other. A casual relationship may start out because of a mutual attraction. Before long, this attraction deepened into affection and love.
They wanted more from each other. No amount of texting, intimacy or love was ever enough.
Some couples take a while to realize what they have. They only realize how serious the relationship is when they miss each other. One partner wakes up in the morning and looks over at the pillow next to them.
When they realize that they are alone in bed, they miss their other half deeply. Then, they think about all of the other people that their partner could date. They become jealous at the thought of anyone else breaking up the relationship.
istockphotos.com/jacoblundThese couples never expected to become more than just friends. Their relationship happened organically. From a friendship or a casual fling, something deeper started to develop. They had no expectations for the future and no pressure to make things work. Despite their lack of expectations, a few nights of romance developed into a genuine relationship.
At any moment, both partners could have just walked away. A romance was not a part of their plan. They could have enjoyed a few nights together or returned to just being friends. Instead, they made the intimidating choice of admitting how they felt and having a relationship. They realized that their love was worth any risk.
These casual couples never expected to find love, but they fell for each other anyway. They committed to a relationship because they realized that they could not live without each other.
Through their unexpected love, they found a lasting happiness.
Did you find love in a "helpless" place as the great Rihanna would put it? Let us know!
Don't forget to pass this on to your friends and see what they think about casual relationships and long-term commitments.