At 58, Fashion Influencer Defies Critics Who Tell Her To Stop Dressing 'Like A Teenager'

Jul 27, 2023 by apost team

Lonni Westonpike, the 58-year-old social media fashion influencer known for her platform "Gray Hair And Tattoos," is breaking stereotypes and redefining what it means to be fabulous at any age. With over 1.1 million followers on Instagram, Westonpike's message of age and body positivity resonates with people of all generations. 

Embracing her beautiful gray hair and adorning her body with tattoos, Westonpike exudes confidence and authenticity, showing the world that life still goes on even when she's pushing 60. Her vibrant presence on various social media channels caught the attention of both admirers and critics alike.

When one commenter suggested that she should quit dressing "like a teenager," the woman saw it as an opportunity to address a broader issue: age-based fashion stereotypes. She released a video proudly dressed in a youthful outfit, comprising jeans, a tucked T-shirt, and edgy Dr. Martens boots, to show that age shouldn't dictate one's style. 

Westonpike's journey to self-expression through tattoos began at a crucial point in her life when she was 30 and going through a difficult marriage. Feeling trapped and helpless, the style maven got her first tattoo – barbed wire around her ankle – symbolizing her desire to break free and embrace her true self. Since then, tattoos have become a significant part of her identity, allowing her to express her inner self without fear of judgment.

In an interview with VivaFifty in 2020, Westonpike emphasized that she is a strong advocate for acceptance and non-judgment. She firmly believes that nobody has the right to respond negatively to her or dictate how she should live her life. Her universe is her own, and she refuses to let critics define her.

The issue of age-appropriate dressing is a topic that Westonpike challenges with fervor. She questions the meaning of "dress your age," as women over 50 are often confronted with this clichéd advice without clear explanations or rules. Her philosophy is firmly rooted in the belief that age is just a number, and the energy and lifestyle a person carries are what truly define them.

“I don’t walk into a room and wonder what people think, I walk into a room comfortable with every part of me,” Westonpike said. "I get a lot of positive responses from people appreciating the fact that I’m not afraid to show the world who I am," she added. 

Westonpike said she's a professional at her job and excels in her field, despite how she may dress. She doesn't believe that her fashion choices, including her tattoos, have had a negative impact on her life. 

While she has always been confident and unapologetic about her fashion choices, she acknowledges that some negative comments might deter others from expressing themselves freely. Therefore, she decided to respond and share her empowering perspective. Through her videos and blog, Westonpike encourages people to embrace their individuality and enjoy life without worrying about societal expectations.

"Don't let unwanted opinions stop you..." Westonpike wrote in a post. She added, "WEAR WHAT YOU WANT."

The woman's influence extends beyond her followers; she challenges ageism and fashion stereotypes prevalent in society when the fashion industry often places more restrictions on what women over 50 shouldn't wear rather than providing suggestions on what they can wear. Westonpike is proving that age should never hinder anyone from expressing themselves through fashion and personal style.

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