According To A Child Psychologist, Children Are Most Misbehaved Around Their Moms

Sep 21, 2018 by apost team

Children Act Out More Often Around Their Moms According To Children's Psychologist

Let's be honest: all parents know what it's like when your kid gets in that uncontrollable mood. They flip out with crazy tantrums more often than we'd like. Wouldn't it be nice if your kids could just stay calm all the time and drop the drama?

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Scholars are trying their best to understand how a child's emotions work and how to effectively fight against those flare-ups.

With toddlers, it can seem especially hard to handle. It's a good thing that being a mom or a dad is a reward of its own. The love you get from your kids is worth every struggle from changing diapers to teaching important life lessons.

You might often think that your kid acts super-nice and behaves well when they are being looked after by someone else. That might be closer to the truth than most parents actually believe. It looks as though many American families might be experiencing a trend in how their children act away from home.

The big shock that's been discovered is that your kids probably act way worse around you because they feel more comfortable. Your children might actually have it set in their minds that they can get away with everything with you. If you've ever had a feeling that something wasn't right, then don't assume it's just your own conspiracy theory.

Their subtle cunning and perfectly-timed fits of rage can really drive a mom insane. Take a long, hard look at your how your child acts when they are visiting friends and family. You might notice that they act a lot more agreeable when you aren't around.

Your kids disrespect for you and crazy off-the-wall burnouts might not happen to anyone else they hang out with. There's no need to worry. You aren't bad at being a parent. It isn't your fault.

"Children save their best and worst for us", says child psychologist Dr. Heather Wittenberg. It's not all bad though. She went on to say, " They’re their ‘true selves’ with us." That means you get to enjoy all the love and tender moments that come with having a great kid. Your child isn't hiding who they are from you because they know you'll love them for who they are.

Children aren't totally against their mom's either. Statistically, children spend more time with their mother, so that makes them feel more comfortable around them. If you look at it in the right way, then really your kid is just letting you know that they feel confident with you. They connect deeply with their mothers, and being a little disobedient is just their way of letting it all hang out when they get home. Your kids know you love them unconditionally. The bond between a mom and her baby is made strong during early developmental stages.

Spend a minute to think about someone you feel really comfortable. You probably get a sense of how much you can get away with, and how much your loved one will put up with your worst side. It's no different for your little ones. It's just a healthy part of social interactions. Everyone learns what their boundaries are, and what's acceptable in different situations. The love you share with your family totally outweighs any hurdles along the way.

Misbehaving is normal for kids of all ages. Ask your friend's if they've ever noticed this with their kids. Let them know what it really means!