30 Day Self-Esteem-Challange: Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone To Find The Strength Within
Oct 16, 2018 by apost team
Do you often wish that you could do things without second-guessing yourself and go to bed feeling proud about who you are? Lucky for you, this is totally possible. Confidence is a quality that's achievable for anyone who seeks it out. In 30 days, you can find your confidence skyrocketing with these innovative ideas.
1. Social media purge
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You don't need to delete everything, but you should stop looking at profiles that you know are contributing to your low self-confidence.
2. Dress how you want
Ignore the trends. You can gain a lot of confidence by establishing your own style.
3. Accept yourselfThis is the root of all confidence. You need to love yourself for who you are, not for what you've done.
4. Remember all the support you have
You might feel isolated, but there are so many people who care about you.
5. Make your presence knownWhen you go out, you should be standing proud and interacting with people.
iStock.com/SolStock 6. Free yourself of burdenThe things that are causing us the most stress are often ones that we can get rid of more easily than we realize.
7. Find some funFeeling stuck in a rut? You can bring some confidence into your life by going dancing or playing a game with friends.
8. Appreciate your accomplishmentsThe past you wanted to be where the current you is. Learn to stop yearning for the future.
9. Limit social media timeAll that time spent staring at your phone could be used in a much more productive manner.
10. Give NO for an answer
Being a deliberate people-pleaser is a sign of low confidence.
iStock.com/javi_indy 11. Stop what you don't enjoyIt sounds obvious, but you have the complete freedom to not be around people or things you dislike.
12. Forgive but be assertive
Holding grudges doesn't help anyone. You can forgive, but you should still realize that the relationship has ended.
13. Talk positively about yourselfYou should be your biggest fan. Try some positive self-talk in the morning.
14. Social media hiatus
A few weeks or months can really help clear your mind.
15. Spend time with friends
These should be people who bring out the best in you.
iStock.com/Geber86 16. Treat your body rightProper nutrition and exercise are essential for feeling confident.
17. End negative relationshipsThese relationships drain your positive energy and leave you feeling worse about yourself.
18. Assert yourself with familyIf you feel your family members are being detrimental to your life, you should tell them about your concerns.
19. Enjoy time by yourselfTime spent alone doesn't need to be lonely. You can build your skills and really learn a lot about yourself.
20. Make a consistent difference
Confidence comes from knowing you have an impact. Look for ways you can contribute to the world, big and small.
iStock.com/Wavebreakmedia 21. Notice the good in lifeDon't just point out imperfections. Think about all the blessings you have.
22. Make new friendsThere are so many people out there who are worth getting to know.
23. Grow thicker skinBeing constantly offended only makes you more insecure.
24. Show genuine appreciation for othersShow others how thankful you are for having them in your life!
25. Be patient
Good things will come for you eventually.
iStock.com/pixelfit 26. Don't compare yourself to othersYou need to embrace yourself without comparing yourself to others.
27. Love your bodyEvery part of you is amazing and makes you so very special.
28. Play motivational musicThe right song can be a great boost to your mindset.
29. Imagine a better lifeWhat does your dream life look like and how are you going to make it your reality?
30. Trust in yourselfThere's so much strength within you. Don't keep it bottled up.
iStock.com/Cecilie_ArcursBeing confident is a journey that never ends. If you have any confidence-building tips, please let us know. Show this to any friends who might need help improving their confidence.