15 Reasons Why She Broke Up With You

Nov 30, 2018 by apost team

It’s everyone’s worst relationship nightmare to have their partner walk away from them suddenly. Being blindsided by the end of a relationship can be extremely hurtful. Adjusting to life without your partner is difficult to go through alone. Even though all breakups are painful, it can be even harder to understand if you had no idea it was coming.

If you sense that there are problems, you can mend the situation by altering your behavior and trying to fix the issues within the relationship. Changes can be made in order to save a relationship.

But if all of that doesn’t work, you can still mentally prepare yourself for the emotions and hurt that you’re going to have to endure once the breakup actually happens.

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However, what happens if you don’t see it coming? Perhaps there were signs, but you weren’t present enough to see that they were there. Sometimes, your girlfriend has made it painfully obvious that something was missing between the two of you. Sometimes we’re too selfish to see what’s right in front of us. But when the breakup does happen, you act totally blindsided.

You’re unsure about what you did wrong and don’t know how to move forward without closure about what the real issues were. You want to learn from the mistakes you made within the relationship so that they don’t happen again. If you’re stuck wondering why she left you, we may have some insight.

1. She broke up with you because she finally figured out that you were never going to love her the way she wanted to be loved.

2. She broke up with you because she felt like she deserved someone who put in more effort than you did. She was tired of your excuses and ignorance.

3. She broke up with you because she felt like she was carrying the entire weight of the relationship all by herself. She knew that in order for the relationship to last, you needed to pick up some of the responsibility.

4. She broke up with you because she realized you no longer only saw her in a crowded room. She noticed that your attention was leaving her and wandering onto others.

5. She broke up with you because you never made her into the person that she wanted to be. You didn’t inspire her to become a better version of herself but rather brought out the worst in her.

6. She broke up with you because she was exhausted from the fighting you two were engaging in. She realized that if you were meant to be together, it should be easier than this.

7. She broke up with you because you were never a support system for her. You never helped her achieve her hopes and dreams. She felt like she was going through her hardships all by herself.

8. She broke up with you because she was forcing herself to act happy around you. She realized that her happiness should have been genuine if the relationship was right. 

9. She broke up with you because she was tired of going to bed sad every night while crying herself to sleep. She realized that you were supposed to make her happy, not upset.

10. She broke up with you because even though you were mutually exclusive, it never quite felt like it. You never made her feel like a valued partner in a committed relationship.

11. She broke up with you because she finally realized you were taking advantage of her love. You never fully appreciated her and you took her for granted. You never realized all that she put into the relationship.

12. She broke up with you because she felt the distance between the two of you. She was tired of being the one to try to work through the space holding you two back.

13. She broke up with you because you never grew into the partner she wanted you to be. She didn’t feel secure and safe in the relationship with you. You made her feel worse about her insecurities instead of better.

14. She broke up with you because she grew exhausted from having to work to get your attention. She was fighting for your love, but she didn’t feel like her efforts were worth it.

15. She broke up with you because you never made her feel appreciated and valued. You never took the time to tell her how grateful you were to have her in your life.

If your relationship ended suddenly, you might be confused. However, reading some of these reasons and explanations may help you understand why she broke up with you out of the blue. Maybe the warning signs were actually there all along but you were too blind to see them. It's okay, we all make mistakes.

But it's important to treat your partners with love and respect.

Have you ever been with a partner who made you feel like this? Or have you been the guilty party who wasn’t the best partner? Next time you select a partner, make sure that you aren't settling. Your romantic interest should fulfill all of your hopes, dreams, and expectations. What do you think? We would love to know your thoughts and opinions on this, in the comment section below! Also, ask your friends to add to the conversation!