10 Ways To Deal With Change When You Retire
Aug 28, 2018 by apost team
Retirement is something that people look forward to with almost breathless anticipation. The idea of not being tethered down to one's job and having the worry about the daily commute anymore is understandably irresistible. However, many don't realize that retirement means a drastic change to one's lifestyle, and it can be difficult to adjust to.
These ten steps will help you with handling change in retirement.
1. Consider what you want out of retirement
Most people who retire look forward to taking advantage of the free time that's at their disposal. After all, you wouldn't want to spend your retirement completely isolated and sitting on your couch, right? However, it can be overwhelming to consider all the options. You could try making a list where you rank your priorities and take care of the top ones as soon as possible. They could include taking classes, traveling, or getting in shape.
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2. Ask why you want to do these things
You shouldn't just be making changes because you think you should. If you aren't able to motivate yourself for a good reason, you're going to feel burnt out quickly. When you decide on a new lifestyle change, list the reasons why you want to do them. If you can't come up with enough, you might want to reconsider them.
3. Where to start?
The first step is always the most important one, but it can also be the most intimidating one. Decide on one course of action and start as soon as possible. It could begin with renewing your passport or signing up for a gym.
4. How will it affect others?
When you choose a lifestyle change, you need to be aware of how it will affect others. This is particularly true if you're married or have adult children at home. Be sure to discuss these matters with them and consider their opinions.
5. Do you want to change?
It might seem like an obvious question, but the obvious questions are often the ones we overlook. You need to make sure you actually want to change before mapping out any sort of course.
6. Are you prepared for change?
You might want to change, but that doesn't mean you feel ready for it. If you know that you're not quite prepared yet, you might want to approach it more gradually.
7. Can you push yourself?
Changing means you have to push yourself mentally and possibly physically. Before deciding on any lifestyle changes, you need to have an honest conversation with yourself and ask if you can make the necessary effort, especially when things get difficult.
8. Who is able to help?
Great progress isn't made alone. You should embrace assistance however you can. Consider who among your friends and family will be able to help you out.
9. Are you willing to be embarrassed?
Changing means stepping outside of your comfort zone. You might look silly at first, but that's okay. What's important is that you keep a good attitude.
10. Are you making progress?
There's no reason to keep doing something you don't enjoy and aren't seeing any noticeable improvement in. Should you find something isn't to your liking, move on.
istockphotos.com/HalfpointWe hope this has given you a great idea of what to expect in retirement. The changes can be overwhelming, but you can make the most of your retirement this way. If you know anyone else who is retiring soon, we encourage you to show them this post.