10 Signs You've Finally Met Your Soulmate
Dec 30, 2018 by apost team
Most, if not all, human beings are in search of a soulmate with whom they can spend the rest of their lives. Social relationships are an integral part of our natures as human beings and all desire a love they can call their own. Falling in love often makes individuals extremely happy and much more confident about themselves.
There are quite a few changes you can expect when you find the perfect person for you. You will need to make adjustments to your life to accommodate this love for the long-term. Your body will also need to undergo changes to facilitate a forever love. The following ten things happen when you are in love.
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Increased Problem-Solving Skills
People who are in love are much more intuitive. You will not only develop an intuition for the wants and need of your new love but you will also become better able to handle complexities in other areas of life.
You Will Be Addicted
You will not suddenly turn to hard drugs when you find your soulmate but sometimes you will feel like you did. Studies have shown that social attachments have a positive effect on the same areas of the brain as many chemical substances do. I am sure you have seen firsthand examples of people who are truly addicted to each other.
You Will Experience Three Stages
Love is not an immediate thing but happens in three stages. first, there is lust. The second stage is the attraction. And finally, there is the attachment stage. It is sometimes difficult to know if you truly are discovering the love of your life or if it is only a temporary infatuation. However, paying attention to these three stages might help you better understand your feelings.
You Will Be More Productive
Once meeting your soulmate, you will do whatever it takes to make them happy. This need to please them will cause you to become more productive. This increased productivity will stem from a need to prove your worth to your partner. You will become the embodiment of all your partner needs from you.
You Will Smile More
You might find it difficult to stop smiling. This will not only happen when you are with your new love but will take place no matter where you go or what you are doing. Your thoughts will return to the person you love often throughout the day and you will smile each time.
The Brain Changes
Seratonin is not the only chemical that undergoes a change in level when you are feeling the effects of love. A number of chemicals that cause feel-good emotions are released into the brain. These chemicals include dopamine, norepinephrine, and adrenaline. These chemicals are responsible for a large number of changes in brain functions.
You Will Be More Vulnerable
Some may not believe this is a good thing but it is important to know that once in love someone else exerts a degree of control over your emotional state. Your own feelings will begin to sync with the feelings of your partner. This condition will make you open to vulnerabilities that did not exist for you before. This is a little-known consequence of finding and falling in love with your soulmate.
Your Obsessions Will Become Fewer
Serotonin is the neurotransmitter most responsible for obsessive-compulsive behavior in human beings. Seratonin levels in the brain are lowered when an individual is in love.
More Than Intimacy
Once the honeymoon phase of your new love ends you will be happy to learn your relationship is about much more than intimacy. The majority of your good times together may be spent in the bedroom at the beginning of the relationship. As time goes on, you will feel like any activity involving your soulmate is enjoyable.
You Change Your Outlook
Your view of the world will be quite different after finding the love of your life. You will see the joy in things that never interested you before. Your optimism will grow, you will become more outgoing, and you will be more loving in all situations. Even if you were happy before finding your soulmate, this happiness will be increased.
Your Thoughts
Have you experienced the effects of love discussed in the article? Are you anxious to experience these feelings again? Send this article to your friends. Those who are in love will know exactly what you are talking about and those who are not will know it is well worth the wait.