10 Reasons Your Older Sister Is The Most Important Girl You'll Ever Have In Your Life

Sep 05, 2018 by apost team

Have you ever wondered why you have a deep emotional connection with your big sister and how time barely passes before you're already checking on each other? It is an absolute privilege to have a big sister who is always by your side and understands a great deal about you.

You probably agree that she is one of the best girls you will ever encounter in your life and nothing can be compared to the joy it brings you when she's there for you through tough times.

She always has your back in case you get in trouble and you don't have any friends within reach to help you out. She might give you a hard time for it, but all in all, she has nothing but the best interest at heart for you. The fighting and bickering can be worth it. Still not convinced? Let's try a different angle.

To her, you may always be wrong and still growing, so she's quick to reprimand you to make sure you learn from your mistakes. You'll most likely disagree with her, which could turn into a fight that only a parent can help break up. In the end, you may actually realize that you were in the wrong from the beginning, and will eventually appreciate your sister for calling you out.

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Your big sister is one of your first friends, so you develop a strong fondness for her. This friendship comes naturally and has a special bond. It takes a lot to burn a bridge between family, so you can almost always count on your big sister to be by your side until the end. 

She sometimes understands you better than you understand yourself, and there will be things that only the two of you can share and relate to.

Sometimes you may have problems with your parents not fully understanding a rough patch or tough situation you're dealing with. They often have the wrong idea or perception, but a big sister usually has a clearer view of what you're going through.

She also understands what it's like to deal with your parents and can offer some advice or relief.

Imagine being able to be yourself at all times when you are with your friend without fear of ruining the relationship. This is possible with a big sister. She's seen you at your most embarrassing and vulnerable moments, so there's nothing you have to hide from her! 

Since you've spent so much time together, she has a better idea of when you need space or a shoulder to cry on and shows you nothing but respect. She gives you the freedom you desire since she's more like a close friend rather than a concerned parent.

The emotional and supportive perks are not the only great things about having a big sister! You are able to explore and discover your own style by following in the footsteps of your sister and borrowing items from her wardrobe...with permission of course! Parents often advise against younger siblings borrowing their older sibling's things, especially when they're teenagers and going through some "changes." It doesn't hurt to ask though! 

A big sister can help you feel comfortable in your own skin and teach you how to enhance your features and find your own personal style. Don't be afraid to approach your sister if you're in need of a new look or some makeup tips. She may be more than happy to show you her routine!

Since your big sister has possibly gone through hardships and learned some valuable life lessons already, she is a good source for advice and tips. Whether it be relationships, your career, or health, a big sister can help you stay on track of your goals and help you figure out what you want out of life. 

Friends come and go, but a sister is always there and ready to be honest with you when you need help.

As you get older, your sister may get married and own a home of her own. Depending on your situation, it may be a comforting thought to know that your sister would not hesitate to have you stay with her if the need arose.

A big sister often leaves her door open for family, especially if she's been through a similarly tough situation. 

You rarely have to worry about your sister lying to you, unless she has a very good reason. You are more likely to be presented with the truth, no matter how much it hurts. A big sister is not afraid to tell it like it is, but this will strengthen your character. 

Your sister just wants to bring the best out of you, and is not afraid to spoon-feed you the bitter truth.

A big sister accepts you, flaws and all, and always believes in you. Since you were little, she has had an image of the type of person you are and would become. She just wants to see you succeed and grow up happy and healthy. Not many friends have been by your side since birth and make your happiness a priority in their life.

A big sister can't help but be proud and invested in the person you are.

A big sister will always hear your thoughts and opinions, but will always provide advice. Her tips and wisdom are usually better tailored than those from a friend, since she understands the family and personal situations that surround you a lot better. 

An older sister's advice is often more genuine, specific, and told from experience. Trust her, and you may find yourself fighting life's battles with ease.

Even when you have no one else, you can often turn to a big sister. Whether you have exciting news or need someone to vent to, a big sister will almost always make time for you.

There's no need to carry unnecessary stress and burden when your sister is there to help you through it.

Does this sound like your big sister? Has she helped you through tough times? Pass this article her way to show your appreciation and let us know in the comments below what you love most about your older sister!