Why You Have To Walk Away, Even When You Are Hurting Inside

Aug 01, 2018

Sometimes, it is okay to feel disappointed and heartbroken. Not everything is meant to be and you may have to just accept that, love. He simply is not the right guy for you at this moment in time.

If things were going the way you needed them to go, you would not be in this position at the moment. You would not have to walk away. The heavy feelings you feel inside wouldn’t be crushing your heart and soul.

There would be no sad goodbyes.

Sometimes forever after just isn’t in the cards. That’s okay. You will need to accept that fact and simply move on from it. You must see that this is your fate, and the universe has better plans for you-plans that do not involve the two of you staying together.

He isn’t your future. No, he is just a temporary stop in your journey. Real love is out there, but it isn’t with him. He will not be the ending to your story.

He is probably still an important part of your past and present. That’s how it is meant to be, but that also doesn’t mean he needs to claim an important spot forever. He can’t control you the way he used to.

Sure, he meant everything to you in the past, but there will come a time in the future where you will see it just wasn’t meant to be. This is why you need to work on yourself. He has not earned a permanent place in your future or heart.

You gave him everything you had only for him to break your heart. He didn’t even come close to being the kind of person you need in your life. He never put himself out there for you in the ways that you did. You let yourself be vulnerable without knowing he would take advantage of it. He may have been worth the risk once but not anymore.

You wanted him to step up and be the man that you needed, but he never even came close to doing so. You thought he would be the person what would make your life complete and whole. You dreamt about your life together, and you made plans that involved him every step of the way. But it just wasn’t meant to be.

You believed in your relationship, but he didn’t. The signs were there from the very beginning. He wasn’t going to be who you needed him to be. He wasn’t willing to try as hard as you were.

You may have laid it all out for him from the start, but he didn’t rise to the challenge in any way, shape, or form. You were blinded by your love for him from the start.

He wasn’t going to go all in for you. He thought he could do better, and he chose not to even try. You see that now. The disappointment and heartbreak you are experiencing are real and valid, but you have to know that it is better to find out sooner than later.

Once you get over him you will be able to move on and find the right one. Just remember, you are not the loser in this scenario. He will realize that you were right all along but by then it will be too late. Your life is in your hands, and you have to pick up and get on with it. Even though it hurts.

If you've experienced this kind of pain, please send this article to others so they know that they will get through this. Have you ever had to walk away from someone you loved, even though it hurt?