Ron Howard Admits He Was 'Really Lucky' His Highschool Sweetheart Turned Into Over 40-Year Marriage

Jun 26, 2022

Ron Howard might have swapped being in front of the camera for a legendary career behind it, but the Hollywood icon is still very well known thanks to his early start on "The Andy Griffith Show" at the age of 5, where he played Opie. Later on, he starred as Richie Cunningham on TV’s "Happy Days" from 1974 to 1980, as well as a leading role in the coming-of-age movie "American Graffiti."

But Ron says he always knew his true calling was to work behind the camera as a director. He once told People, “I was an actor who dreamed of being a director.” So that's exactly what Ron did — turned his attention to behind the camera. Now, he's a world-famous director and producer of movies such as "Apollo 13," "A Beautiful Mind," "The Da Vinci Code" and many more. 

What's more, two of Ron's daughters — Bryce Dallas Howard and Paige Howard — have followed their father into show business, with both carving out careers as actresses in Hollywood. 

But one aspect of Howard's life that isn't as talked about is his 46-year marriage to his wife Cheryl Howard, née Alley. The couple first met while attending John Burroughs High School in Burbank, California, and have been together ever since. The director told People in the same interview, "I met her, and there was never anybody else." He described the "instant connection" that existed between them, and clearly, that's never faded, as the couple is only a few years off from their 50th wedding anniversary. Let's take a look at their sweet love story.

Ron Howard revealed on his Instagram in 2020 that his first date with his wife Cheryl Howard took place on Nov. 1, 1970. It went like this:

"We went to see a re-release of Stanley Kramer’s It’s a Mad Mad Mad World and then got some pizza at now defunct Barnone’s in Toluca Lake. Quite a start, Right?"

In an interview with HuffPost, Ron added that he "felt really lucky" when they first met.

"It's crazy — we were teenagers, it shouldn't have worked. We got married young, that shouldn't have worked either, and yet it really and truly has," Howard said.

One of Hollywood's most understated long-term couples, Ron and Cheryl, have raised four children together, including Bryce Dallas Howard, 41, twins Paige and Jocelyn Howard, 37, and son Reed Howard, 35. They now have five grandkids as well. 

Throughout his incredible career, Ron admires how Cheryl has been a constant support for him, telling People: 

“She’s unbelievably supportive and always has been. Our compatibility has endured through all kinds of experiences.”

Their compatibility has also helped bring the couple to their 46th wedding anniversary, which they celebrated in June of 2021. Ron usually honors the couple's wedding anniversary each year, and this last one was no exception. Sharing a sweet photo of them with two balloons spelling out "46" behind them, Ron stated they were celebrating "quietly but beautifully" in Gold Coast, Australia, where he had a day off from filming the upcoming movie "Thirteen Lives." He ended his touching post with, "I'm a lucky fella."

Howard and his wife are undoubtedly a successful couple in their marriage. The star revealed to People in 2019 that he always dreamed of working in entertainment. “I was an actor who dreamed of being a director,” Howard said. 

He told The Guardian his passion started all the way back as a young boy.  “I grew up as a child actor, been working all my life, and I love it. But it does create a kind of bubble. So I look for projects that lead me to life experiences I wouldn’t have otherwise had – and on my own I’m an introverted, risk-averse individual. But, when there’s a story to be told, it gets me out of the house, talking to people, learning things. And then I just go,” he shared. 

And while the Howard family lives a life of luxury and fame, the actor and director shared that life doesn't come without struggle. 

"The regrets I have are strong enough that I wouldn’t share ’em. I think that you can’t live without suffering some. You can’t expect perfection. It is important to sort of acknowledge some of our imperfections. I write them down," the star shared. He finished and said, "There’s something about acknowledging mistakes and being able to put them down on paper; they become facts of your life that you must live with. And then hopefully you can navigate the road a little bit better."

The icon in film and television is lucky to have an amazing partner like his wife, with whom he has shared so many years of life, even through suffering. 

Reaching nearly 50 years of marriage is an accomplishment. For last year's anniversary, Ron shared a longer heartfelt caption, which he used to send a positive message amid a challenging year. Alongside a photo of the couple with red roses beside them, Ron wrote:

"45yrs ago today Cheryl & I wed. Our journey has been one of many blessings & lessons experienced both together & as individuals. In these often heartbreaking times we will continue to listen & learn & hope our country will grow, unify, flourish & set a positive example for the world. #BlackLivesMatter"

Hitting milestones of 47 years married and over 50 years dating is no small feat, so it's no surprise that people want to know how Ron and Cheryl do it. The director told People:

“People say, ‘How’d you do it?’ There’s no technique. There’s no tactic other than communication is really important. You have to learn to communicate and have difficult conversations in constructive ways."

That's some excellent advice, but Ron is also aware that some luck plays into how things turn out too. He added:

"Beyond that, there’s an element of luck because people either grow together or they don’t and I don’t think you can force that."

Ron and Cheryl clearly work hard at maintaining their relationship, and it seems they're just as dedicated to their children as they are to one another. Bryce has previously said that she looks at her dad as her mentor. She and her father have always been close, so much so that Bryce told People in June 2018 that she and her husband Seth Gabel have modeled their parenting style after her parents'. Considering how well Ron and Cheryl's marriage has lasted and how happy and close their entire family appears to be, theirs is a great influence to have.

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