I Need A Love Who Is My Best Friend, Not Just Someone To Love

Aug 23, 2018

True intimacy involves sharing both your mind and your body. You want a lover with similar interests that you can enjoy simply spending time with. A lover who understands you like your best friend. A lover who is your best friend. You want a lover to share the story of your life with as a partner, a lover and a friend. A lover who becomes an important part of your life and changes your world for the better. 

Intimacy is about finding someone you can share your soul with. Finding love is easy if all you want is physical intimacy and the first touch and kiss. This is probably not enough for you because you want to share so much more. You want to feel beautiful and comfortable when you cry in front of him. You want him to hold you and kiss you as soon as you wake up even with messy hair. You want to drink beer, watch football and laugh until your stomach aches.  
 

You want to travel together and sample delicious and exotic meals. You want to lose yourself in the sunsets of another county together and hold hands while you stroll through the streets. Sometimes all you will desire is to watch Netflix on the couch together in your pajamas. You will want to spend the day eating fantastic snacks and watching great television shows. You will watch him until he falls asleep and miss him until he awakens. 

You want to burn dinner accidentally so you can go out for pizza and wine. You want to sit on the same side of the booth to eliminate any distance. You want him to send funny texts to make you smile and have your families meet.

You want to have children together, laugh, cry and be successful together. You know true intimacy is about a lot more than just sharing your body. You want to share your soul with him. You could find someone looking for nothing more than physical intimacy quickly. 
 

Physical intimacy by itself will never be enough for you. What you really want is for your lover to be your best friend. You want that feeling of comfort when you are together and to always feel beautiful in his eyes. You want to be right next to him every time his team scores and be able to grab hold of his hand and see that spark in his eyes. There will be days of eating lunch and dinner will not matter because you are enjoying snacks and each other even more. 

You want to fall asleep and wake up together. Sit cross-legged while talking about everything important and nothing at all at the same time. You want to get just a little drunk on wine together. You want your families to enjoy one another while you celebrate your successes together. You want to make certain you walk side by side along the same path in life. You want to hold hands with your lover and know he will always be your person. 

You want to be silly with your lover while your eyes are filled with either laughter or tears. You want a lover who is everything to you, your lobster, your very best friends and your person. You want to endure life together and know holding hands will get you through anything. You want so much more than just a physical relationship no matter how easy it is to find. You want a lover who will be with you always and forever. 

This post perfectly describes exactly what a lover should be and everything you could ever desire in this person. If this had an impact on you, please share your opinions and discuss this information with your friends so they can be touched as well.