'Hawaii Five-O' Star Jack Lord Said His Older Wife Gave His 'Life A Purpose'

Apr 09, 2022

"Hawaii Five-O" was an extremely popular television series from the late 1960s to 1980. It set the stage for many police procedural dramas to follow and has even continued to air in reruns. The show had a revival in 2010 with a slightly new name, "Hawaii Five-0" (written with a zero at the end), giving old and new fans a chance to fall in love with all the elements that made the series so successful.

One of the main stars to come from the original "Hawaii Five-O" was Jack Lord, who portrayed the character of Detective Captain Stephen McGarrett, head of a special state police task force in the state of Hawaii. As McGarrett, Lord became known for his catchphrase, "Book 'em, Danno!"

Lord was also known for his work in other television series as well as films and Broadway productions. On top of that, he also had talents as a director and producer, proving that there was no task that Lord could not take on.

He was born with the name John Joseph Patrick Ryan on Dec. 30, 1920, in Brooklyn, New York. When he was older, he attended the United States Merchant Marine Academy before going on to New York University, where he obtained a degree in fine arts. Eventually, Lord found his way to becoming a full-time professional actor, and the rest is history.

Along the way, Lord fell in love, but his first marriage ended in heartbreak and tragedy. However, Lord fell in love again and married a woman who was 15 years older than him and did everything she could to support his acting career.

Lord was born in Brooklyn but resided in the Hudson River Valley in New York with his family, according to the Remembering Jack Lord's biography of the star. His family owned a fruit orchard there, where he also learned how to ride horses.

The soon-to-be star was very active in high school and participated in several activities, as well as doing what he could to make his own money. Many years later, in 1942, Lord was drafted into World War II, just a short time after he married his first wife. According to the biography, his marriage with Ann Cicely Willard was full of young love but not successful, as the couple struggled due to Lord being gone so much. The pair divorced in 1947.

The marriage also resulted in Lord's first son, whom he only met once when the baby was still just an infant. Lord never saw his son again, who later died in August 1955 at the age of 12. Lord learned of his son's passing when Willard sent him a copy of the death certificate in the mail.

Lord had encountered many other hardships throughout his life. According to MeTV, he was once stranded on a seaboat for 16 hours during WWII and promised himself that should he make it back to land, he would change his name. This is what led him to leave behind his birth name and instead use what became his stage name.

He had started acting while in the Marines and later worked as a car salesman to help pay for his acting lessons. Soon enough, all of Lord's hard work and dedication finally paid off, and he landed the role of a lifetime starring as Steve McGarrett on "Hawaii Five-O."

It was clear that Lord had a true love for the state that brought him so much fame. "This show will be it for me," he said. "I'll never leave the islands. They'll have to carry me out." According to MeTV, he spent the rest of his life in Hawaii after retiring from acting.

However, many of Lord's successes wouldn't have been possible without the love and support of his second wife, Marie De Narde. According to Sylvia Lynch's book about Lord's life, Narde was born in 1905, making her 15 years older than Lord. She had built a house for herself in Upstate New York, which just so happened to be a home that Lord was interested in buying when he was still a new actor. Eventually, the two met and fell in love.

They married on Jan. 17, 1949, and Narde seemingly gave up her career as a fashion designer to fully devote her time to Lord and helping him with his career. It was clear that Lord was grateful for his older wife and how much she did to help make him the star he is now remembered as. 

"Meeting her made all the difference," Lord said. "I might have sailed on merchant ships for the rest of my life. She gave my life a purpose." The actor added, "I think my whole life has been an effort to become the man she thought I was." 

The pair were together up until Lord's death in 1998, showing just how strong and powerful their love truly was.

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