7 Signs He's In Love With You Even When He Doesn’t Say It

Aug 06, 2018

Women and men show love in different ways. Women say “I love you’ often, while men tend to show their affection in their daily actions. Yes, this can be confusing. The truth is, women and men think very differently. We have come up with seven common signs that show that he is very much in love with you, even when he doesn’t come out and say it. You can easily say “I love you,” but true love is shown in actions.

1. He Makes Sacrifices for You

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It takes maturity, selflessness, and love to make sacrifices for someone. It is easier to make sacrifices for someone you love. Therefore, a man who is in love will not want to see their woman unhappy. If they can prevent it, they will. Men who truly love their women will go above and beyond the norm just to make something work out. They know it is important to their partner and they want to see it happen.

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2. He Listens to You

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Studies have shown that women are actually better listeners than men. Therefore, a man who actively listens and responds to you is a keeper. This is called “active listening” and can be rare in men. It shows that he really loves you. It is even better if he responds well to your wants and needs.

3. He Can be Vulnerable with You

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Men do not like to show vulnerability to most people. They feel as though this is a weak trait that needs to be hidden. Men always want to put up a tough front. But a man in love will start to let his guard down a bit. He is more comfortable and will let his true feelings show once he is comfortable with you. Trusting someone is one sign of true love.

4. He Loves Your Look Every Single Day

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When we first start dating, men and women both typically put a lot of time and effort into their looks. We all want to look our best and impress each other. When we are together in an actual relationship, our comfort levels start to rise. We don’t need to dress as fancy. We feel as if it is perfectly fine to walk around with no makeup on and in our sweatpants. When a man really loves a woman, he will tell her she is beautiful even when she is at her messiest. This means that he really loves her.

5. He is Proud of You

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A real man will brag about the woman he is in love with. He is okay with letting the whole world know that he loves someone. He is proud of you and he wants to let everyone know. He is also proud of your accomplishments, whether you are a great mother or have a great job. You can rest easy knowing your accomplishments are being noticed by your man.

6. He Has Your Back

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This is a very important trait. A man who loves you will almost always stick up for you. Now, sometimes he WILL try to avoid drama and controversy, especially when it happens between a family member or a close friend. He may not want to get in the middle so he shys away from whatever is going on. However, when a man defends you, this is his way of telling you that he loves you.

7. Your Friends and Family are Treated with Respect

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This may be the last one on our list, but it is one of the most important traits of a man. A man who loves you will always respect your friends and family. If he cares about you, he cares that your loved ones are important and will treat them as such. ##text##Sure, your man may not like every member of your family or a particular “catty” friend, but he will keep quiet about it if that is the case. They mean a lot to you, and he respects your opinion of them.

Does your loved one display these behaviors? He is a keeper if he does! Let us know what he does in the comments and pass this on to friends and family!