15 Powerful Characteristics Of A Classy Woman

Jun 04, 2018

Every woman has within herself the power to create a strong image that people will remember. She is able to individualize her essence through how she chooses to present herself and what she chooses to say and do. Think of some of the world's most famous women. What is their essence? Queen Elizabeth's essence is a tradition. Oprah Winfrey's essence is wisdom. Beyonce's essence is power. Kim Kardashian's essence is sexy. Who we are is revealed through our words, actions and appearance. 

As we experience life's ebbs and flows throughout the years, it is very common for women to find themselves wanting a change. We are constantly growing and within that growth lies new wants and desires. For example, Paris Hilton was known as a partying socialite who was "famous for being famous" in the early aughts. Now she is a businesswoman with massive success in the real estate, fragrance, fashion and beauty industries. Change takes time, but if you are consistent others will surely notice. 

There are many different characteristics that can be used to describe a woman and "classy" is one of the most flattering. There is just something special about the way a classy woman presents herself. 

Listed below are 15 powerful characteristics of a classy woman. These characteristics are building blocks that create quite a lasting impression when used in tandem! 

It may not seem like it at times but everyone generally goes through the same type of problems. No one's life is perfect! We all have to struggle in some area of life to get to the brighter side of our problems. So when I say no one wants to hear you complain about your problems (besides your nearest & dearest), please believe me. We've all been on the receiving end of someone's constant complaints. It's annoying and you tend to eventually steer clear of that person. You don't want to be that person. 

If you're finding it hard to not complain try taking 5 minutes out of your days to write an appreciation list. It doesn't have to be on anything fancy; it can be on the back of an old receipt in your purse! Take that 5 minutes and make a list of the things that you are appreciative of. Write down as many as you'd like and as you're doing so, feel how it makes you feel to appreciate these things. Try to remember that feeling the next time you feel the urge to complain. 

There is a time and a place for everything. This is especially true when it comes to hair and clothing choices. Whether you're going to the gym or out dancing, always seek out event appropriate attire and beauty choices that flatter your figure and allows you to express your personal style. If you are unsure of your personal style consider hiring a stylist in your area, or, you could just peruse fashion magazines and clothing websites for looks that appeal to you.

There truly is no one else on this Earth who is just like you. That's pretty amazing. Your thoughts, motivations, goals, desires, and interests are all your own. Loving yourself goes way beyond your personal appearance. It's all about loving and appreciating the things that make you uniquely you. When you're able to fully appreciate yourself then you're able to fully appreciate others. When you appreciate others for their uniqueness there's no need to compare or compete with them. They are on their own unique path just as you are on yours. 

Classy women know that they're special because they appreciate their uniqueness. Because of this, they're able to stand their ground in any situation. You'll never hear a classy woman rambling on or explaining herself to anyone. She engages in interactions confidently and discloses only what she wishes. 

Classy women never show too much skin. It may not be fair but it's common knowledge that women are treated differently when they do. They're not taken as seriously, and are harshly prejudged. It is best to showcase your intelligence and personal style rather than your body.

When you show up late you're sending the message that you don't respect the other person's time. If you told someone that you were free at a certain time then try your best to be there. If you do find yourself running late then make sure to always, always, always communicate that with the person you are meeting.

You can be a potty mouth all you want at home and around friends but when you're in public settings cursing shouldn't occur. It's about respecting yourself and others. Always use appropriate language in public.

If you are invited to someone’s party or event always bring a small gift. It's just courteous and will show the host that you appreciate the invite. A scented candle, a bottle of wine, or a baked dish make great gifts.

It may be a dying practice but being polite goes a long way! It's sad how surprised I am to hear someone say "thank you" when I hold the door for them. Be gracious to others by saying "please" and "thank you". It will surely be appreciated and remembered! 

A classy woman keeps her word. She has a reputation for being dependable and consistent. If you promised your support then show up when it's time. It's awesome to support others but only do it when your heart is in it. Don't be afraid to tell people "No." Always strive to be honest about how you're feeling.

Yes, gossip and rumors are a part of life but that doesn't mean you have to engage in it. When you perpetuate gossip you are adding to the negative energy being placed on the subject. It's perfectly okay to show your disinterest in gossip. The more you do so, others will stop doing it as well.

Keep your head held high, shoulders back and back straight. Entering a room this way gives off the impression that you are confident, alert and ready.

I believe it's so much harder to be cold than it is to be warm. There is power in being warm. People remember warm interactions. It's so easy to flash a genuine smile or ask someone how they are doing. It makes you feel great and those positive feelings pass on the other person

There is nothing worse than a person who only talks about themselves. Classy women understand that a good conversation requires an exchange of information. People can tell when someone is genuinely listening to them and when they're not. Don't be all about yourself.

Keep it real! Everyone appreciates honesty and it aids in your trustworthiness. Speak and act in accordance with your feelings and thoughts, whether they be negative or positive. Keep it respectful and you won't have any problems. 

A classy woman is a timeless woman. Treat others how you want to be treated. Remember, a woman builds her essence through her words, actions, and appearance. If you are looking to be more classy, put some of these tips into practice. We'd love to hear about your experiences!

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